So many times it is the perceivably bad things that are the good things we need to move us from one place in life to another, to get unstuck so to speak. Happiness and contentment, while they are right and desirable, do not necessarily augment the deepest places of our souls that are waiting to be enriched by the fruits of something far more harsh but holy.
Desperation is a channel of grace.
That sounds counter-cultural and even scandalous, but it is true. If you find yourself there, desperate for relief, change, movement, desperate to know that your suffering will end, take heart, friend.
The gift of desperation is given by God to draw you closer to Him so that you may know and trust Him more fully.
In understanding Him, we better understand who we are in His image, not our own. You are loved.