Control is an insidious intruder. I have to be very intentional to guard myself against it, and even when I am aware, it is tricky. It sneaks into every relationship and situation often undetected. One reason control is so deceptive is that sometimes it is called “helping,” and isn’t that a noble thing to do? In some situations, yes; but often when I find myself saying, “I am just trying to “help” you, that can frequently be transposed to mean, I am trying to control you or the situation. When I dissect my misdirected helpfulness, fear is often at the root; and I have come to learn that although sometimes fear is an understandable reaction, it can also be an UNBELIEVING reflection that says God will not get it right. Lord Jesus, you are in control, not me. Sometimes hidden fears lurk in the deepest recesses of my heart, and I seek a false sense of safety by “suggesting,” fixing or doing which only translates to control. Help my unbelief, Father. Give me the grace to lay my fear and desire to “fix” within your power, not my performance.
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Press on in Faith and Hope, Friends
Earlier I stepped out of church to more tragic news. More evil. More lives taken. More unnecessary violence. More heartache.
Yesterday, I decided my feelings would not be the boss of me today as they have been so many recent days amidst the backdrop of consecutive tragedies. I didn’t know my pledge would be so immediately challenged. I remain steadfast in that commitment, but my heart is heavy, and I feel deep sadness. However, I do not have to be powerless to my feelings.
I honor a God whose promises still reign, and He has given me the power to act in spite of my agony. I am going to use The Lord’s strength to continue being a prayerful supporter, a promise seeker, and a peace sower.
Remember the crucifixion, friends. From all the view points of the people present on that dark day, it looked like the most tragic event in history, and it was in many ways. However, it turned out to be the greatest thing God ever did for the world.
We have to hold on to that kind of wreckless faith, friends. We cannot put our hope in this world, but we must press into the hope of God’s word while in this world. Otherwise, we will be starving orphans searching everywhere for a drink only to find tainted water.
John 16:33 ~I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.”
Set Free
Problems hold great power over us when we conceal them. Being transparent about what enslaves us transfers power from the problem to the person. Shame is a prison with many hostages. Vulnerability is the key to freeing the prisoners. Grace enables us freedom and purpose in our common brokenness.
Scars Change the World
Your success may change the world for a little time, but it is your scars that hold the power to change the world for a lifetime.
Power in Weakness
Be friendly with your weakness today. Evaluate it, ponder on it and search for its power. Rest in the promise of 2 Corinthians 12:9~ Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses so that the power of Christ can work through me.
Father, please give us the discernment to recognize our weaknesses. Likewise, clothe us with your grace that we may see the beauty and not the burden of our imperfections. Teach us to draw your strength from flawed places within us, Father. In all our brokenness, remind us to search for your purpose. Where there are no answers, God, may we rest in an unwavering faith that says although I don’t understand this or that; I understand You. Understanding is the ancestor of rest and trust. May we rest and trust in You today and all days. Amen.