Are you trying hard? Maybe you are trying to be better, be happier, be a better parent, spouse or friend? Are you exhausting yourself working to figure it all out? I often forget that I am inadequate and not in control! I can get myself so spun up trying to figure circumstances out.
There is good news for people like me, and maybe you. The notion that trying harder will get us where we want to be or bring clarity to problems is a lie from the enemy that we frequently feed ourselves. Trying harder is based on our sufficiency and strength. If I am the best I have, I am in trouble.
We were not created to figure life out. Jesus controls when or if we find out. Working harder does not make you happier, a better person a better (fill in the blank).
The secret is not in striving but surrendering.